While pretending to clean the house I came across my photo albums from the "good ol' days". Way back when Windows was just a gleam in Bill's eye, digital cameras weren't even used in Star Trek, and my step-brother's top of the line Commodore 128 PC had a tape drive. Yeah, I am that old.
When I was five I finally wore my mom down enough to get me a pony. It took three bratty ponies and a million bumps and bruises for my non-horsey mother to realize that maybe one of us should take lessons before getting another horse. After a year of me taking lessons I finally convinced my mom that I was ready for my own horse. I mean seriously, they had us cantering on our second lesson and jumping small cross poles the next. After a year of jumping anything they put in front of me I certainly felt ready for my own horse. They taught me how to groom, pick out hooves, proper feeding, etc. I knew it all by the time I was 12. Or at least I thought I did.
Horse shopping is the greatest thing ever, especially when you're 12 years old and searching for your first real horse. The market was a lot better than it is these days, but you could still find a good kid's horse for under $800 and there were plenty of them in our area to choose from! I'm not even going to pretend I remember everything about the day I found Mariah. All I do remember is that we went to the farm originally to look at this Palomino walking horse mare, but when the guy told me that Tennessee Walkers "couldn't" canter I didn't want her anymore. Apparently, I didn't know as much as I thought.
Mariah was at the same farm and the guy told me they had been trying to change her name to Copper, but she wouldn't hear of it. Good thing! Silly humans. We were told that Mariah was 12, but later found out from the vet that she was closer to 18. We were still too stupid at that point to think of a pre-purchase vet exam. Just trust the seller and take them at their word. Why would they lie?
This is Mariah. Ain't she just the cutest???
We found a neighbor about a mile away as the crow flies with five fenced acres and a three stall bank barn who let us board Mariah for 50 bucks a month. I had to walk through our woods, cross a neighbor's pasture with one very ornery bull who liked to chase me, then up that neighbor's incredibly long drive to get to Mariah. I loved it.
Mariah and I spent every free minute together. My mom had turned me loose on the countryside and I could go wherever Mariah's legs could take me. We rode down to the Potomac river, down to the little country store for candy and soda (Mariah loved Kit Kats), or down the road to the girl scout camp where an uncle was the caretaker. Back then all roads were gravel, everyone waved as I rode by or said hello by name, and very rarely did a car pass us by.
One day someone else got the same idea and brought her gelding to board with Mariah. Gus was a great little gelding that bucked when you asked him to canter. His owner let me ride him when I had friends over.
One of the many stupid things I tried doing as a kid. A buddy of mine, Lisa, took this picture after our ride. This was one of the thousands of days where parental guidance was a mile or more away.
Oh look, here's another stupid kid trick. Lucky for me, Mariah took everything in stride and never once took a wrong step. My grandmother actually took this picture, then proceeded to lecture me about it.
That summer I had to have knee surgery to remove a part of my knee cap that had broken off while climbing a tree. A full length plaster cast may have stopped me from swimming that summer, but didn't stop me from riding. The doctor had to replace my cast once because the stirrup on my western saddle wore it out on the bottom of my foot. I had another surgery on the same knee the next summer and by then they had come up with fiberglass casts. That cast had to be replaced twice for the same reason. But at least I could swim in it!
I had Mariah for six fabulous years. The only problem I ever had was that she would colic several times every summer, without fail. Usually just walking her around for a couple of hours would do the trick, but sometimes old Doc Howard would have to come out and pump mineral oil into her.
Once I had left home and had three other horses to take care of, I found a great home for Mariah. She had six kids who doted on her and parents that trusted her as much as mine did. I lost touch with the family for five years and thought I'd never see Mariah again. She was certainly dead by then, she had to be over 30 years old! My only hope was that she had gone peacefully and led a happy life. I regretted selling her for many years, but I just couldn't take care of so many horses when I was only 18 years old. I thought she'd be better in one place instead of moving all over the place with me. At least that's what I told myself whenever I missed her.
When I was 28 years old I was trying to find a new home for Semi. I thought she was ready to move on so I could rescue another. A mother and daughter came out to ride Semi and while the daughter was riding I was chatting with mom. She was telling me how they already had a horse, but she was too old to ride anymore and her daughter needed something bigger. She also said how much they both loved this other mare and how she took such great care of her daughter. Then she mentioned that the mare had come from a family with six foster kids that had given her up when they moved to Montana... and her name was Mariah.
I ran into the house and grabbed a picture of Mariah. I handed it to mom and asked if that was her horse. We spent the next two hours talking about Mariah and how a neighbor's stud had escaped his fence two years before and Mariah had a bouncing baby boy 11 months later. They invited me to their place the next day.
I slept about two minutes that night. Would she remember me? Would she care? Does she look ok, have they been taking care of her, is she showing her age??
I just realized how long this post has become. I should get back to my house cleaning before YD comes down here with her whip.
Just kidding! Mariah greeted me the next day with a nicker and a nudge. I spent two hours alone with her, just catching up on old times and feeding her the Kit Kats that I'd brought. It was one of the best days of my life and I will never forget it.
In the Fall of 2001 Mariah laid down in her pasture for a nap and never got back up. She was buried in that pasture, on a hill under an Elm tree.